A Few Jokes To Smile About…
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“Teacher,” announced little Joey, “there’s something I can’t figure out.”
“What’s that Joey?” asked the Sunday School teacher.
“Well accordin’ to the Bible, Children of Israel crossed the Red Sea, right?”
“Right”®
“An’ the Children beat up the Philistines, right?
“Er-right.”
“An’ the Children of Israel built the Temple, right an’ the Children of Israel wuz always doin’ something important, right?”
“All that is right, too,” agreed the teacher. “So what is your question?”
“What I want to know is this,” demanded Joey. “What wuz all the grown-ups doin?”
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A man was seen fleeing down the hall of the hospital just before his operation.
“What’s the matter?” he was asked.
He said, “I heard the nurse say, “It’s a very simple operation, don’t worry, I’m sure it will be all right.”
“She was just trying to comfort you, what’s so frightening about that?”
“She wasn’t talking to me. She was talking to my surgeon!”
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An Emergency Call Centre worker in Melbourne has been fired, much to the dismay of her colleagues who are reportedly unhappy with her dismissal.
It seems a male caller dialled 000 from a mobile phone stating, “This is Jonathan Davis and I am very depressed. I am lying here on a railway track. I am waiting for the train to come so I can finally go to God.”
Apparently, “Remain calm and stay on the line,” was not considered to be an appropriate response.
Learning to Live on Earth Like Humans
A look at being fully human.
I came across a quote from the poet George Bernard Shaw that captivated me, especially the last line-
“Now that we have learned to fly in the air like birds and dive into the sea like fish,
Only one thing remains-
To learn to live on earth as humans.”
Think with me…what does it mean to live like humans?
Perhaps a place to start is by looking at what inhumanity is. The Oxford dictionary describes this as: brutality, barbarousness, callousness. Can we add to those adjectives? Cruel, selfish, cold-blooded, hateful, heartless…
But before we become too judgmental of others, and ourselves, let us remember that we are not born inhumane – life can be very cruel and can turn a cute kid into someone that has lost their humanity.
What then does true humanity look like? Think of a person that you might have met in your life that has qualities that are noble, protective, true, compassionate, warm, loving, non-judgemental, not perfect but never malicious.. What impact did that person have on you? Did you feel safe with that person?
I wonder what our present world would rate on the “humanity scale” today? Wars destroying innocent lives, and devastating countries, the inhumanity of human trafficking, youth crime, sophisticated crime cartels, domestic violence, and many more inhumane behaviours….
However, before we become too negative, let us remember that just as there is inhumanity there are many examples of extraordinary, and ordinary, daily acts of compassion, self-sacrificing endeavours to improve the well-being of others, and genuine love and care..
The bible is full of stories both types of people and all those that fall in-between but it also has given us a picture of someone that was fully human in the best sense of the word; Jesus.
Just think of His qualities as revealed when he lived on earth- he had incredible compassion, but was quite clear about behaviours that were damaging, e.g. he did not lecture the prostitute but said to her “go and sin no more”, he wept over Jerusalem, in the bible Peter, the disciple said, “When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats..” He could have called on legions of angels to rescue him and destroy his enemies, but he did not. Even on the cross he said, “Father forgive them for they do not know what they are doing!”
If we want to be truly human let us study the lives of truly great people who have lived, but most of all let us study the life of Jesus and imitate Him.
Characteristics of Self-Accepting Individuals
What behaviors does a person who has a strong, self-accepting attitude present?
A person who has a strong, self-accepting attitude presents the following behavioural picture (Hamachek):
Believes strongly in certain values and principles and is willing to defend them even in the face of strong group opinion. Feels personally secure enough, however to modify them if new experience and evidence suggests he/she is in error.
Is capable of acting on own best judgement without feeling excessively guilty or regretting actions if others disapprove of what has been done.
Does not spend undue time worrying about what is coming tomorrow, what has happened in the past, or what is taking place in the present.
Has confidence to deal with problems, even in the face of failure and setbacks.
Feels equal to others as a person, not superior or inferior, irrespective of the differences in specific abilities, family background, or attitudes of others towards him/her.
Is able to take for granted that he/she is a person of interest and value to others, at least to those with whom he/she chooses to associate.
Can accept praise without pretence or false modesty and compliments without feeling guilty.
Is inclined to resist the efforts of others to dominate.
Is able to accept the idea and to admit to others that he/she is capable of feeling a wide range of impulses and desires, ranging from being angry to being loving, from being sad to being happy, from feeling deep resentment to feeling deep acceptance.
Is able to enjoy a wide variety of activities involving work, play, creative self-expression, companionship, or loafing.
Is sensitive to the needs of others, to accept social customs, and particularly to the idea that he/she cannot enjoy himself/herself at the expense of others.
(Extract from REACHING OUT by David W Johnson. Prentice-Hall Inc. New Jersey)
An Amazing Miracle
A wartime story
An amazing miracle
In my collection of inspiring material, I came across this article by an unknown author….
“Who told you that? My father!
No way he said to him. You were born in 1925. They argued. I was there when you were born. I was 1925. Trust on this.
Eventually Sol conceded and said that he was born in 1925
He asked him one more time, “When were you born?” He said 1925.
He turned to me and said, remember, you were born in 1925.
He disappears. A few moments later I am standing in front of Joseph Managcamei, he looks at me and says, ”When were you born?”
I said in 1925. He motions me with this thumb to go to the right, to the barracks to work.
I learned a few hours later that those who were born in 1927 or later were sent immediately to the gas chambers.
I realized that this man that I met, I did not know who he was, who claimed that he was present at my birth, was literally and angel who saved my live, and here I am today, and I have a family because of that man. And then Sol said, “I did a lot of thinking; what is my wish for myself and my life? I said I had an angel who appeared at my feet in Auschwitz and took me out of death and brought me back to life.
I still don’t know who that person was, that is irrelevant, for me he was a Malak and angel and I said to myself; “I want to be an angel for other people, I want to be that angel for other people. Just like I had an angel in those bleak moments ,those dark moments in history was there for me, I want to be that angel so that other people, when they think back of the greatest moments of their lives, should know that they had an angel who was there fir them to save their lives.
(I cannot vouch that this is a true story, but to my mind it rings true and passes onto a us very real message… let’s be “angels” to those in need.)
How to Get People to Like You
Ten rules for getting the esteem of others
Ten rules for getting the esteem of others
First: Learn to remember names. Inefficiency at this point may indicate that your interest is not sufficiently outgoing. A person’s name is very important to them.
Second: Be a comfortable person so there is no strain in being with you.
Third: Acquire the quality of relaxed easy-goingness so that things do not ruffle you.
Fourth: Don’t be egotistical. Guard against giving the impression that you know it all. Be natural and humble.
Fifth: Cultivate the quality of being stimulating and interesting so that people will want to be with you and get something from you.
Sixth: Study to get the scratchy elements, even those which you may be unconscious of, out of your personality. Expert counselling may help in this.
Seventh: Sincerely attempt to heal, on an honest Christian basis, every misunderstanding you have had or now have. Drain off your grievances.
Eighth: Definitely practise liking people until you learn to do so genuinely. Will Rogers said, “I never met a man I didn’t like”. Try viewing all people in that way.
Ninth: Nevet miss an opportunity to say a word of congratulation upon anyone’s achievement, or express sympathy in sorrow or disappointment.
Tenth: Get a deep spiritual experience so that you will have something to give to people that will help them to be stronger and meet life more effectively. They will love you for it.
(Author unknown, found a copy amongst my files)
Above all learn to love, unconditionally accept, and care for and about all people that you meet.
A Little Boy’s Explanation of God
An 8 year old boy’s explanation of God. Excellent.
I certainly don’t think an adult could explain this more beautifully!
It was written by an 8-year old named Danny Dutton, who lives in Chula Vista, CA. He wrote it for his third grade homework assignment, to ‘’explain God’. I wonder if any of us could have done as well?
EXPLANATION OF GOD
One of God’s main jobs is making people. He makes them replace the ones that die, so there will be enough people to take care of things on earth. He doesn’t make grownups, just babies. I think they are smaller and easier to make. That way he doesn’t have to take up his valuable time teaching them to talk and walk. He can just leave that to mothers and fathers.
‘God’s second most important job is listening to prayers. An awful lot of this goes on, since some people, like preachers and things, pray at times beside bedtimes. God doesn’t have time to listen to the radio or TV because of this. Because he heard everything, there must be a terrible noise in his ears, unless he has thought of a way to turn it off.
God sees everything and shears everything and is everywhere which keeps Him pretty busy. So, you shouldn’t go wasting time by going over your mom and dad’s head asking for something they said you couldn’t have.
Atheists are people who don’t believe in God. I don’t think there are any in Chula Vista. At least there aren’t any who come to our church.
Jesus is God’s Son. He used to do all the hard work, like walking on water and performing miracles and trying to teach people who didn’t want to learn about God. They finally got tired of him preaching to them and they crucified him. But he was good and kind, like his father, and he told his father that they didn’t know what they were doing and to forgive them and God said O.K.’
His dad(God) appreciated everything that he had done and all his hard work on earth so he told him he didn’t have to go out on the road anymore. He could stay in heaven. So he did. And now he helps his dad out by listening to prayers and seeing things which are Important for God to take care of and which ones he can take care of himself without having to bother God. Like a secretary, only more important.
You can pray anytime you want, and they are sure to help you because they got it worked out so one of them is on duty all the time.
You should always go to church on Sabbath because it makes God happy, and if there’s anybody you want to make happy, it’s God!
Don’t skip church on Sabbath because it makes God happy, and if there’s anybody you want to make happy, it’s God!
If you don’t believe in God, besides being n atheist, you will be very lonely, because your parents can’t go everywhere with you, like to camp, but God can. It is good to know He’s around you when you are scared, in the dark or when you can’t swim, and you get thrown into real deep water by big kids.”
But…you shouldn’t just always think of what God can do for you. I figure God put me here and he can take me back anytime her pleases.
And …..that is why I believe in God!
Have an awesome day, and know that someone has thought about you!
A Few Jokes To Smile About…
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FOR THOSE WHO LOVE THE PHILOSOPHY OF AMBIGUITY, AS WELL AS THE IDIOSYNCRASIES OF ENGLISH:
Atheism is a non-prophet organization.
If man evolved from monkeys and apes, why do we still have monkeys and apes?
I went to a bookstore and asked the saleswoman, “where’s the self-help section?” She said if she told me, it would defeat the purpose.
If a deaf child signs swear words, does his mother wash his hands with soap?
If a turtle does not have a shell, is homeless or naked?
Can vegetarians eat animal crackers?
If the police arrest a mute, do they tell him he has the right to remain silent?
One nice thing about egotists; they don’t talk about other people.
How is it possible to have a civil war?
Why do shops have signs, ‘GUIDE DOGS ONLY’, The dogs cant read and their owners are blind?
SENILITY PRAYER
God, grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked anyway,
And the good fortune to run into the ones I do, and the eyesight to tell the difference.
FINISHED AND COMPLETE
People say that there is no difference between “finished’ and ‘complete’.
I say there is…
Marry the right person and you’re “complete”
Marry the wrong person, and you’re “finished”
WOODEN LEG
Yesterday I bought an old Elvis Presley record at our local market. It was called “Wooden Leg.”
I said to the stall holder, “I thought it was called “Wooden Heart?”
He said, “Yes, it is, but this is a pirate copy.”
A modern interpretation of our Lord’s Prayer
A fresh look at the Lord’s prayer..
A modern interpretation of our Lord’s Prayer
“Our Father” – Every living human being is a child of God. Some know they are loved. Others reject any belief in God through various reasons, the main one being the misrepresentation of who God is, because who would reject one who loves them so deeply?
“Who art in Heaven” - We are divine creatures having an earthly experience and one day will return to our heavenly home.
“Hallowed be Thy name” – May we always acknowledge You with deep respect and awe for we serve a mighty and eternal God.
“Your kingdom come” – May we work for noble principles and according to the command to love God, love our neighbour and ourselves.
“On earth as it is in heaven”- Imagine a world where there is peace, abundant joy, unconditional love for one another (regardless of race, colour, creed, gender), humans in harmony with all of nature, no wars, poverty and hunger. Fully aware that we are loved by our Heavenly Father.
“Give us today our daily bread” – Our earth has sufficient sustenance for all people. It is selfishness, greed, foolishness that mismanages our abundant resources resulting in adults and children starving on the one side of the world and others are grossly obese elsewhere.
“Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us” – This is a powerful statement. Are we saying that if I do not forgive those that have hurt or betrayed me, I can’t be forgiven of my ‘sins’ ?
“Save us in the time of trial, and deliver us from evil” – Jesus said, “ In this world you will have trouble, but be of good cheer for I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33). We live in an imperfect world, “broken” people doing unspeakable things. Someone once said, “Evil will happen, but not through me” – may that be our motto.
“For the Kingdom, the power, and the glory are yours, now and for ever” - We acknowledge that God is our ultimate sovereign worthy of honour and glory and our total obedience. AMEN
Marge Stathakis
CO-OPERATION RATHER THAN COMPETITION
Which is better?
We live in a competitive world; in sport, business, in achievement, wealth, etc…… and competition is good. It encourages, forces us, to be the best in whatever field we are in. I can imagine how lazy we would become if there was not competition. In High School my best friends and I were in constant competition- Cheryl would beat me to the finish line by a few seconds in the 100m event, later Vera would also outrun me, but I would be far ahead in breaststroke at the swimming gala.
Competition makes us train harder, study more, “stretch” ourselves rather than becoming lax and lazy. So, what I am saying is that competition, in its rightful place is not only good but essential for us.
But there is also the dark side of competition where it aims at breaking down our opponent, sometimes in their financial endeavours, or, as we see in politics where ‘dirt’ is dredged up, and published, to discredit them. Even if the information was false, or unsubstantiated the ‘mud’ sticks. It is called “dirty tricks”. Unfortunately, we see too much of this type of competition in our modern world!
The opposite to unhealthy competition is co-operation. People working together being mindful of the needs and roles of each other. It is not so much about “me” and “my” success but what is good for me, and my neighbour.
I found an interesting example of this in the bible recently. (don’t write off the Bible, it is full of wisdom!) The scenario is this; John the Baptist was calling people to repent of their selfish and wicked ways. He was baptising them in the Jordan River as a symbol of “washing off the old stuff” and a new beginning. Jesus was there and asked to be baptised, but He never launched His ministry until John was arrested and imprisoned. In the Gospel of Matthew it states that only when Jesus heard that John was in prison did He begin His ministry. It says in Matthew 4:12 “When Jesus heard that John had been put into prison, he returned to Galilee” and in verse 4:17 “From that time on Jesus began to preach.” Co-operation, not competition! Teamwork each having their role to play.
Our task is to discern when competition is healthy for all the parties, or when competition is detrimental.
On the surface a comedian but in actual fact…
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Charlie Chaplin dressed, walked like an idiotic Hitler. He was ‘silent’. No words could be held against him, but he spoke volumes through his silence. When he did speak, offstage, he revealed exceptional insight.
Article found in a magazine: Wise Words From a Silent Hero
With all the chaos in the world, it is timely to remind ourselves of what is actually important in life. The following is an excerpt from Charlie Chaplin’s famous “The Greatest Speech Ever.”
“And the good earth is rich and can provide for everyone. The way of life can be free and beautiful, but we have lost the way. Greed has poisoned men’s souls, has barricaded the world with hate, has goose-stepped us into misery and bloodshed.”
“We have developed speed, but we have shut ourselves in. Machinery that gives abundance has left us in want. Our knowledge has made us cynical. Our cleverness, hard and unkind. We think too much and feel too little. More than machinery we need humanity. More than cleverness we need kindness and gentleness. Without these qualities, life will be violent, and all will be lost.
To those who can hear me, I say – do not despair. The misery that is now upon us is but the passing of greed- the bitterness of men who fear the way of human progress. The hate of men will pass, and dictators die, and the power they took from the people will return to the people. And so long as men die, liberty will never perish.”
And particularly relevant, is the following, as it applies to nearly all the world today. It should serve to awaken us to the knowledge that divided we will fall to the brutal immorality of today’s banking/government/military complex, but united, we have the power to change our futures for the better:
“You the people have the power, the power to create machines, the power to create happiness. You the people have the power to make life free and beautiful, to make this life a wonderful adventure.
Then in the name of democracy let’s use that power- let us all unite. Let us fight for a new world, a decent world that will give men a chance to work that will give you the future and old age and security.
“By the promise of these things, brutes have risen to power, but they lie. They do not fulfil their promise, they never will.” – Charlie Chaplin
HANDLING NEGATIVE EMOTIONS
Red: stop! / Yellow: think / Green emotional control
Handling negative emotions.
Some practical suggestions in handling our negative emotions-
RED: What has loss of control cost you?
YELLOW:
Past emotional issues: list and give percentages (100% maximum emotional pain)
How did your family of origin cope with feelings? Are you displaying similar traits?
3. GREEN:
How can I better handle my feelings?
Steps to improve emotional control:-
3.1 Identify your feelings; Why am I feeling this? How ‘intense’ is my feeling
3.2 Accept your feelings. They are part of your navigational systems. Use them constructively. We are responsible for our own feelings and actions, blaming others is non-productive.
3.3 Thinking and feeling; Ask yourself….
“How does my thinking influence my feelings?” and “How do my feelings influence my thinking?”
Listen to your feelings they are sending you a message and relieve/control feelings by changing your thinking.
4. Frequent pattern:
EVENT eg criticism) → immediate interpretation/thought(“I’m not good enough/’he’s getting at me)→ feelings(hurt, humiliation, inferior)
(Red = Stop, breathe, calm down, count to ten )
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CHOICE: What do I make of this? What is the problem here? Is it valid/invalid?
(yellow= consider what is happening)
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ACTION/REACTION: Ignore or be assertive?
(Decision= How do I respond?)
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5. Ways to control emotions:
a. Becoming emotionally aware (primary eg hurt) secondary (eg anger)
b. Physical Exercise; regularly.
c. Healthy eating patterns.
d. Being aware of the effect of chemicals you take(medication, supplements etc)
Learn to think logically: Traffic light technique
True Peace
True peace is not the absence of chaos, but the calm found within it.
I have said this to you so that in me you may have peace. In the world you face persecution, but take courage: I have conquered the world! (John 16:33)
There once was a King who offered a prize to the artist who would create a painting that best demonstrated peace. Many artists tried. The King looked at all the paintings, but there were only two he really liked and he had to choose between them.
One painting was of a beautiful and calm lake scene. The lake was a mirror reflecting the towering snowcapped mountains all around it. Overhead was a blue sky with fluffy white clouds. Most who saw this painting thought that it was the perfect picture of peace.
The other painting had mountains too. But, these were rugged and bare. Above was an angry sky from which rain fell and lightning danced. Down the side of one mountain, tumbled a turbulent waterfall. When the King looked, he saw that behind the waterfall grew a tiny bush from a crack in the rock. Within the bush a bird had built a nest. There, in the midst of the rush of angry water, sat the mother bird in her nest. The King chose this picture as the one best demonstrating peace.
People grumbled at the King’s choice. The king responded to the people saying that he chose the second picture because peace did not mean being in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. The King explained that true peace meant to be in the midst of all those things and yet still be calm in heart.
[Jim Liebelt, HomeWord Devotional www.homeword.com]
A Few Jokes To Smile About…
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A Few Jokes To Smile About.
Did you know that 97% of the world has difficulty with basic mathematics?
Luckily I’m in the other 5%.
My therapist told me, “Write letters to people you hate and then burn them.” Did that and now I don’t know what to do with the letters.
They say you shouldn't go grocery shopping when you're hungry but I ran out of food a few days ago, and it's just getting worse.
I was hospitalized for a few days, and my wife reported that my dog really missed me. "She spends the night at the front door, awaiting your return,"she said.
"What an example of true love," I replied. "I wonder if you'd be that
concerned about me?"
"Honey," my wife answered, "if you were gone overnight, and I didn't know where you were, you can be sure I'd be waiting for you at the front door."
WISE WORDS FROM “The Book of Celtic Wisdom” BY MICHAEL SCOTT
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Words have magical power. They can raise up the spirits or dash them down.
May the Lord grant you food and clothes apleanty.
A feather pillow for your head,
And may you be forty years in heaven
Before the devils even knows you’re dead.There is little shame in stealing, cheating and fighting, provided that,
When you steal, you steal the heart of your sweetheart,
When you cheat, you will cheat death, and
When you fight, you will fight for a worthy cause.There is luck and there is discipline.
Discipline achieves more.Words have a magical power.
They can raise up the spirits or dash them down.
They can bring laughter as easily as tears.
Spend words like a miser counting coins.
Make each word count.
GUIDELINES FOR HEALTHY GRIEVING
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Recognize that grieving, when you have suffered a loss, is normal.
Accept feelings of grief: “I don’t need to pretend; this is how I feel”
Recognize that there are stages of grieving that have been recognised in the grief journey; denial, anger, bargaining, depression and eventually acceptance.
Journey through the pain and loss, don’t suppress your feelings.
Speak to God about your struggles, remember how Jesus wept at the tomb of Lazarus (John 11:33-36) He understands!
Talk to ‘safe’ people about your loss, however, recognise that everyone experiences grief differently.
Don’t change the subject if pain/grief comes up in conversations, share as much as you are comfortable doing.
Your grief may be deeper and last longer than expected.
Don’t feel guilty if you laugh at something, or enjoy something.
Take as much time as you need to recover.
Remember, death is not the end.
THE PAIN OF A BROKEN HEART
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Once upon a time there was a Rag Doll. She was a very happy doll.
She believed that she was very loved, looked after and cared for.
Then she started to get older and was not so pretty anymore and her body was not so good. She was told that she was not a nice doll anymore in any way, so somebody started to undo the stitching on the doll and take out the stuffing and throw it away.
She was not cared for or loved anymore.
There was a nice new porcelain doll to play with.
When all the stuffing was removed and thrown away on the dump,
all that remained of the rag doll was the tattered outside material.
(written by a woman whose husband had an affair with a younger woman)
author unknown
MEMORY LOSS: 7 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR MEMORY (MAYO CLINIC)
“I can’t remember…”
Try these simple ways to improve your memory.
Can't find your car keys? Forget your grocery list? Can't remember the name of the personal trainer you liked at the gym? You're not alone. Everyone forgets things once in a while. Still, memory loss is nothing to take lightly.
Although there are no guarantees when it comes to preventing memory loss or dementia, some activities might help. Consider seven simple ways to sharpen your memory. And know when to get help for memory loss.
1. Be physically active every day
Physical activity raises blood flow to the whole body, including the brain. This might help keep your memory sharp.
For most healthy adults, the Department of Health and Human Services recommends at least 150 minutes a week of moderate aerobic activity, such as brisk walking, or 75 minutes a week of vigorous aerobic activity, such as jogging. It's best if this activity is spread throughout the week. If you don't have time for a full workout, try a few 10-minute walks throughout the day.
2. Stay mentally active
Just as physical activity keeps your body in shape, activities that engage your mind help keep your brain in shape. And those activities might help prevent some memory loss. Do crossword puzzles. Read. Play games. Learn to play a musical instrument. Try a new hobby. Volunteer at a local school or with a community group.
3. Spend time with others
Social interaction helps ward off depression and stress. Both of those can contribute to memory loss. Look for opportunities to get together with loved ones, friends and other people, especially if you live alone.
4. Stay organized
You're more likely to forget things if your home is cluttered or your notes are in disarray. Keep track of tasks, appointments and other events in a notebook, calendar or electronic planner. You might even repeat each entry out loud as you write it down to help keep it in your memory. Keep to-do lists up to date. Check off items you've finished. Keep your wallet, keys, glasses and other essential items in a set place in your home so they are easy to find.
Limit distractions. Don't do too many things at once. If you focus on the information that you're trying to remember, you're more likely to recall it later. It also might help to connect what you're trying to remember to a favorite song or a familiar saying or idea.
5. Sleep well
Not getting enough sleep has been linked to memory loss. So has restless sleep and sleep that gets disturbed often. Make getting enough healthy sleep a priority. Adults should sleep 7 to 9 hours a night on a regular basis. If snoring disrupts sleep, make an appointment to see your health care provider. Snoring could be a sign of a sleep disorder, such as sleep apnea.
6. Eat a healthy diet
A healthy diet is good for your brain. Eat fruits, vegetables and whole grains. Choose low-fat protein sources, such as fish, beans and skinless poultry. What you drink also counts. Too much alcohol can lead to confusion and memory loss.
7. Manage chronic health problems
Follow your health care provider's advice for dealing with medical conditions, such as high blood pressure, diabetes, depression, hearing loss and obesity. The better you take care of yourself, the better your memory is likely to be. Regularly review the medicines you take with your health care provider. Some medicines can affect memory.
When to get help for memory loss
If you're worried about memory loss, make an appointment with your health care provider. If memory loss affects your ability to do your daily activities, if you notice your memory getting worse, or if a family member or friend is concerned about your memory loss, it's particularly important to get help.
At your appointment, your provider likely will do a physical exam and check your memory and problem-solving skills. Sometimes other tests may be needed too. Treatment depends on what's causing memory loss.
O LOVE THAT WILL NOT LET ME GO
Blinded and heartbroken, George Matheson turned his suffering into a timeless hymn of unwavering faith and God's enduring love.
At age 20 George Matheson (1842-1906) was a student at college, was engaged to be married but began going blind. When he broke the news to his fiancée, she decided she could not go through life with a blind husband. She broke off the engagement.
George had three sisters who were very close to him and helped him through his studies.
The day came, however, in 1882, when one of his sisters fell in love and prepared for marriage herself. After the wedding George went to his home feeling despondent and lonely as his sister’s wedding brought back memories of his own broken relationship 20 years earlier. How was he going to face the future alone, having now lost the one who had encouraged and supported him.
It was in that moment of realization that he penned the words of that lovely hymn, “O love that would not let me go. Matteson later wrote that “The hymn was the fruit of that suffering.”
The hymn celebrates the constancy of God's love––"love that wilt not let me go"––"light that follow'st all my way"––"joy that seekest me through pain." It concludes by celebrating "Life that shall endless be."
Richard Donavan writes, “When I read the various accounts of Matheson's writing this hymn, one sentence struck me as especially important. It was this––Matheson said, "The hymn was the fruit of that suffering." There is an important lesson in that. All of us suffer some sort of heartbreak or disappointment or disability at some point in our lives. What makes all the difference is our response ––whether we let the hardship stop us or inspire us to greater effort.
Matheson suffered two severe blows that could have stopped him in his ministry––the loss of his eyesight and the loss of his beloved. In both cases, he made the best of a bad situation––and we are all the richer for it. As this hymn reveals, it was his faith in God that kept him going through the adversities that he suffered. He believed that God's love would not let him go––and that God's light would follow him all his way––and that God's joy would seek him through his pain––and that faith made all the difference.”
A Few Jokes To Smile About…
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A Few Jokes To Smile About.
My friend told me he had the body of a Greek god...
I had to explain to him that Buddha is not Greek.
An elderly couple were sitting in the lounge about to have afternoon tea. The husband got up and said I feel like some ice cream and syrup.
The wife said write down my order, I would love biscuits and tea. Write it down. You will forget.
A while later the husband arrived with beacon and eggs, and the wife said where’s the toast? I told you to write it down
Gallagher opened the morning newspaper and was dumbfounded to read in the obituary column that he had died.
He quickly phoned his best friend, Finney.
"Did you see the paper?" asked Gallagher. "They say I died!!"
"Yes, I saw it!" replied Finney. "Where are ye callin' from?"
LONE-LINESS vs ALONE-NESS
Being alone, positive or negative?
I remember my father singing a song, I think it was reminiscence of the time he spent in North Africa during WWII, the words, as I remember them were “Lonely as a desert breeze, I may wander where I please…” As the memory emerged so I began thinking of loneliness, and how different it is to aloneness.
There is a sadness, a longing, an emptiness hidden in the word loneliness. Think of the widow in her home, children married with families of their own. The funeral is over, and she is alone after all have left, she washes the dishes, vacuums the house, makes a cup of tea and the silence descends…she is alone.
A man is sent to a remote area to complete a work contract. He works hard all day then the siren goes indicating for them to “down tools”. Many co-workers head off to a nearby bar, but he has had his brush with alcoholism and cannot put himself to the test. Too tired to do anything constructive, but not tired enough to sleep…loneliness!
A child sits alone on the playground of the new school. Children all around are playing games with their friends, they have been in the same school, the same town, forever. Loneliness!
I also think of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane. He is alone and wrestling with the knowledge of the suffering that He will have to endure… and the sadness of the ‘brokenness’ and weakness of so many people. He weeps for them…. Those closest to Him cannot understand, cannot comfort Him!
However, there is a vast difference between ‘loneliness’ and ‘alone-ness’.
Alone-ness has a totally different ambiance, meaning, experience! We need to have “alone” time. Some writers rent remote accommodation so that they can fully focus on the thoughts that they are trying to convert into words. When we are alone with only ourselves, no-one to prevent or interrupt our inner journey, then the real ‘soul’ work begins. The Psalmist speaks to himself and says, “Why are you downcast, O my soul?” A time to acknowledge our thoughts and feelings, away from well-meaning friends and loved ones who would offer solutions or encouragement. A time to actually feel … to rejoice, to mourn, to be proud, to admit failure, to be angry and to explore why that emotion is so strong, to be able to think, plan and dream.
Jesus, John the Baptist, and many spiritual giants and guru’s have spent time in the ‘desert’ or in quiet spots in mountains etc. It seems to be that in that silence, clarity is easier to come by. Think of the opposite-the noise of a busy city, town, environment. It is not easy to think and feel deeply in those places.
We may not be able to escape to the desert, or such like places, but we can proactively create such a place for ourselves.
Loneliness is a cry for love and companionship
Aloneness is a time for inner rejuvenation